Together People Make a Difference

From Donate Your Weight
Since it's Master Mind Monday and Martin Luther King Jr.'s birthday, it seems only fitting that I write a little bit about how I think Master Minding can change the world. After many years of being a counselor and college instructor, I have met 1,000's of people on an up-close and personal basis.  I have met MANY amazing people who deeply desire to make a difference in this world.  But they don't, because the inner critic stops them or fear stops them or they just don't know where to get started. It can be extremely overwhelming to take on a significant life change alone but with the support of others, it's easy...even joyful.  You can create this kind of support in your life by starting a Master Mind group. This short audio will help you to ponder how much of a difference you can make in your life and the life's of others by utilizing the principle of the Master Mind. For more information about starting your own Master Mind group, visit startamastermindgroup.com
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For Those Who Are Ready to “Come Up” There’s Agape Toastmasters

Carlos Reynaldo delivered a rousing presentation at Agape Toastmasters in Culver City on Saturday as part of an Open House Celebration. His speech was one of three speeches about the powerful transformations Toastmaster's have experienced in their lives as a result of membership. Reynaldo has taken full advantage of the Toastmasters program and has delivered 12 speeches in a short period of time. Each time, he gets better. If you want to improve your communication and leadership skills look into Toastmasters and see what they can offer you for a very minimal investment of your time and money. Toastmasters is an International, Non-Profit Organization, find a club near you at: http://www.toastmasters.org/ --------------- Start a Master Mind Group.comWhen you think about it, every musical act you know of is using the Master Mind principle whether they realize it or not. They are joining together as a team with a combined vision. You can use the same principle and make some truly rockin' things happen in your life. Do you have a creative project you want to complete? Do you want to find a purpose for your life? If so, I invite you to come over to my brand new page called Start a Master Mind Group.com. I'm offering 4 freebies to get you started so you can get a sense of what the Master Mind is all about. There's nothing cool about holding back. This post was originally published on September 27, 2010

Flying Dragon Trapped in a Parakeet Cage

Lately I've been on this "coming out" kick. No, it's not what you think. I'm not claiming a new sexual orientation, I'm talking about unleashing my inner dragon that's been locked in a parakeet cage for far too many years. The best way to describe it is with pictures. This lives inside me: But for many years, this is how I've lived: At the very least, I'd like to find a happy medium. So that's where massive activity comes in handy. I'm busting out of my small energy and into my large energy. Hula hooping and jumping on the trampoline while lip-synching punk rock wearing a feather boa helps me clear out the old and awaken the new (see video below or on YouTube). Of course, warrior workouts with Jaiya Figueras of Your Next Victory help too. Unleash your inner dragon. Get Galvanized!
Start a Master Mind Group.comWhen you think about it, every musical act you know of is using the Master Mind principle whether they realize it or not. They are joining together as a team with a combined vision. You can use the same principle and make some truly rockin' things happen in your life. Do you have a creative project you want to complete? Do you want to find a purpose for your life? If so, I invite you to come over to my brand new page called Start a Master Mind Group.com. I'm offering 4 freebies to get you started so you can get a sense of what the Master Mind is all about. There's nothing cool about holding back.

Wonderful People and Great Opportunities Just Keep Whizzing Right to Me

I just got back from Master Mind group and I took a look at the photos my camera has saved from the last 9 days. Let's just say my life is a whirlwind of good things.  This blog is an excuse for me to post the awesome photos that represent the past 9 days of my life and maybe to tell a little bit about each photo. This is a week I want to remember. Enough is Enough Candlelight Vigil at Long Beach City College 2010 On Friday, October 22 I was asked to speak at a candlelight memorial for Omar Brown, former Long Beach City College student who was shot and killed in an allegedly gang-related fight. Although the event itself, and the need for it is a tragedy, the positive aspect is that the Long Beach City College community took quick action and pulled together an event to show support and to speak out against violence. The event was hosted by the Associated Student Body and I want to give a "shout out" to Pamela Marshall for doing a great job pulling everything together. Also great to see Anita Gibbins of the Women and Men's Resource Center and Sabrina Sanders, Interim Dean of Student Affairs. I was honored that I was asked to speak and I was proud to speak about peace and love, two topics I am passionate about. Below is a photo gallery of the event. I gave my students extra credit for attending and asked them to hold up Get Galvanized signs during my speech so I would have the courage to pull it off.  To see my speech on YouTube, click here. Enough is Enough Candleligh Vigil at Long Beach City College 2010 Enough is Enough Candleligh Vigil at Long Beach City College 2010 Enough is Enough Candleligh Vigil at Long Beach City College 2010 Just less than two days later I was able to join with Cynthia Lamb at an event called Conscious Kickstart - The Future of Alternative Health. The event was organized by Blog Talk Radio host, Michelle Ann Johnson and featured a panel of leaders in the alternative healing profession. It really did give my Consciousness a Kickstart. One of the powerful points in the day was when Cynthia Lamb guided participants in a journey to Forgiveness.  She helped remind participants that we are all "spirit in a body" and we are all worthy.  Here is a video of the process that you can use to forgive and heal: Later in the day,  Sound Shrine was there with a Didgeridoo.  Evan played the instrument right next to me as I was sitting on the floor and I was definitely feelin' the vibes.

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I left Conscious Kickstart and headed straight to the Rave theatre in Culver City to see Ghettophysics -Will the Real Pimps and Ho's Please Stand Up. Film director E. Raymond Brown was present at the screening and answered questions from the audience.

E. Raymond Brown

After the show, I was able to speak with E. Raymond Brown privately and we posed for a few pictures. The film was very honest, entertaining and thought-provoking. You can probably expect to hear more about this film in the coming months. Last I heard, it was in the top 3rd highest grossing film at the Rave and it has been extended for theatre play one week. Click here to go to the Rave Theatre page and see if its still playing.  The more people who go, the more press and promotion the movie will receive which means more people will see it all across the nation and around the world. The message in his movie is important and timely, because it shines light on the self-destructive power dynamics that run our world.

Ghetto Physics Poster

Overall I left the theatre with this take home message: we need to wake up and realize who's really in power and we need to step into our own power if we want to survive and thrive. We cannot allow ourselves to be passive victims to the politics of corporate greed. On Wednesday, I was so galvanized by the events of the week that I took two steps of action toward things that are important and valuable to me. I went to Long Beach City College and taped a short interview with Urban Voodoo about community action and being a part of the solution. I was able to submit the video to 562CityLife in response to their call for the "10 most 'Real' people in Long Beach." To see the video interview, click on the picture below.

Immediately after taping the interview, I went to teach my Domestic Violence class and decided to give my students a little surprise that was out of the ordinary. Lately, we've been talking about the importance of esteeming yourself and not holding back because of fear of rejection or criticism. We talked about the standing true to your values and to your Self. I figured the best way to get the message across was to be real myself, to not hold back, and to lead by example. So, I took 7 minutes out of class time, put on a pink wig (to help me get in touch with my 16-year-old inner punk rocker) and told the story of how I ran away from an abusive household and why I'm proud that I did. If you'd like to see the speech on YouTube, click on the picture below.

Enough is Enough Candleligh Vigil at Long Beach City College 2010

Thursday was the day my new computer came via UPS. What this means, is that it will be even easier for me to pump out more YouTube videos and to do the work that feels like my purpose (sharing empowering information) in a faster, more efficient way.

Dell Computer

The week ended with another great meeting at Agape Toastmasters. I was the Toastmaster of the day and since it was October 28, I decided to blame it all on Halloween and go for the gusto. I chose the theme "Alter Ego Extreme" and I dressed in Galvanized gear. I did my best to act like a rockstar the entire meeting and I definitely accomplished my goal of parading my Alter Ego for all to see. I had a great reaction and I made so many people smile and laugh. It was wonderful. I definitely felt Galvanized.

Galvanized at Toastmasters

Call me crazy, (it wouldn't be the first time I heard it), but I've got to tell you something. I know the reason why I've got the guts and stamina to do the things I do. It's because I'm surrounded by people who love and support me (including my Master Mind group) and that is by design. I made that choice. I believe anyone can create the life they want but some people need a little bit of support from people outside their normal social and family circle. If you need some support, you might want to check out Master Minding.  I'm having a  sale this month as part of my 20 days to create your reality celebration. It ends on my birthday, November 20.  I will be offering the entire I Create Reality package along with the entire Start a Master Mind package for the price of one. The information and support you'll receive in this bundle of products will definitely give you the strength and courage to live your own life.  Check it out. Because there's nothing cool about holding back.

The Serious Side of Antoine Dodson and His Family

If you spend more time on the internet than you do watching T.V.; if you get a major chunk of your media input from YouTube, you have no doubt heard of Internet sensation Antoine Dodson. Dodson (up until recently) lived in the projects in Huntsville, Alabama called Lincoln Park. One night, while he was minding his own business hanging out on Facebook, he heard his sister scream. He ran to her room and saw her struggling with a bed intruder, a man who was trying to rape her. The rapist was scared away before he was able to carry out his sexual assault. When news cameras arrived at Dodson's doorstep, he was still angry, scared and worked up over the ordeal. He was very animated on camera and it was entertaining to watch. So entertaining that the Gregory Brothers, who are known for auto-tuning the news made a song of it and took it viral. At this point in time the Antoine Dodson Bed Intruder song has about 14.5 million views on YouTube. At one point, it was #3 on the iTunes popularity list. Bed Intruder Song (Remix) (feat. Kelly Dodson) - Antoine Dodson Bed Today I heard a little bit of the story that put a twist on things for me. Dodson's sister has a 2-year old daughter. The daughter is aware of the trauma and tragedy and she is scared. She is scared for herself and she's scared for her mom. I am currently teaching a class about Victimology at Long Beach City College and we talked about sexual abuse just last Thursday. We watched a video by Marilyn Van Derbur called "Once Can Hurt a Lifetime" and we talked about all the ways sexual abuse impacts the survivor. Here's what we came up with (click on image to enlarge): Despite all these known consequences for sexual assault survivors, resources to help people are a very low priority on our list at voting time. The impact of lack of funding is evidenced by the closure of Sexual Assault Crisis Agency in Long Beach. For those who need support with overcoming the impact of sexual assault, a good place to start is RAINN (Rape Abuse and Incest National Network). In class we also talked about some of the ways abusers wield power and control over others. Here's our list (click on image to enlarge): We discussed how gaining personal power was a positive step to avoid falling prey to victimizers. If you want help to strengthen your mind, visit icreatehabits.com for a free hypnosis MP3 titled Create The Life You Want. Or, visit Start a Master Mind Group.com to find out how to use group energy to strengthen and improve yourself as a person.

What Are Your Influences?

Every musical act has influences. The Beastie Boys and A Tribe Called Quest influenced each other. Punk bands from the U.K. influenced garage bands in Southern California and vice versa. Reggae and dub influenced each other. What are your influences? That's what we talked about in Helping and Listening Skills this week. We came up with a great list and I liked it so much I took a picture of it. I asked the students to tell me about the things that influence them. What do they value? Why do they do what they do; love what they love? This is the list they came up with: Parents Environment -Friends -Neighborhood -Peers -Religion Culture Schools Food/Nutrition Media Mental Illness Life Experience -Observation Socio-Economic Status ($$$) Books Music Relationships Friendships Family -Uncles -Aunts -Brothers -Sisters -etc. Role Model -Coach -Minister -Teacher Law Government Health Medication/Drugs Language Sleep Fashion Freedom Travel Pets Sex Arts -Pictures -Painting -Dance Entertainment Perception The point I want to make in this class is that you cannot know any of these things about yourself or anyone else unless you first learn how to listen. A great Master Mind group is one that's committed to honoring and respecting each other and that includes listening unconditionally and without judgment. It is honoring a person to trust that they know what's best for their own life. --------------- Start a Master Mind Group.comWhen you think about it, every musical act you know of is using the Master Mind principle whether they realize it or not. They are joining together as a team with a combined vision. You can use the same principle and make some truly rockin' things happen in your life. Do you have a creative project you want to complete? Do you want to find a purpose for your life? If so, I invite you to come over to my brand new page called Start a Master Mind Group.com. I'm offering 4 freebies to get you started so you can get a sense of what the Master Mind is all about. There's nothing cool about holding back.

I Want Roller Derby on My OWN T.V. Show

I submitted an audition to Oprah on Sunday. I'm asking you to vote for me to get my OWN T.V. talk show. In my audition, I tell Oprah I want to talk to roller derby girls. And I mean it. It's a fast growing sport that empowers women and it is fun to watch. In the 70's, everyone watched it and loved it. Let's get it back on T.V. I want a show thats a mix between Soul Train and old school Oprah. You know, when she used to have real-life, everyday people on and they'd tell amazing stories and experience transformation before your eyes. How about if we do transformative shows and mix it up with fun stuff like music and roller derby? That's what I want to do and you can help me by voting today. Vote early, vote often. Your opportunity to vote ends June 3.

I Spoke ‘Rapper’s Delight’ with My College Students during Oprah Audition

I submitted an audition tape to Oprah on Sunday. I'm hoping that you will vote for me to get my OWN T.V. talk show. We taped the audition in front of a live audience. Between takes I did a little dancing, a little rapping and a little jumping up and down. All caught on video. I want a show that's a mix between Soul Train and old school Oprah. You know, when you used to have real-life, everyday people on and they'd tell amazing stories and experience transformation before your eyes. How about if we do that with fun stuff like music and roller derby and stories? That's what I want to do and you can help me by voting today. Voting ends June 3.